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Expectations( Root cause for all troubles )

I meet my friend Rohit, he looked really sad and upset. As a matter of fact I meet Rohit after 4 years. He told me that his life has been very miserable since last year, when asked about the reason he told me that his Girlfriend broke up with him. They had a good relationship for past 5 years, but because of some circumstances they broke up. I told me that it was him who made the mistake by going out with another Girl during there relationship but soon realised that it was not what he wanted. Now the girl has moved on and started a new relationship. She is not talking to Rohit any more and Rohit wants her back in his life. Rohit's business, family life and soclial life has suffered immensly throughout. Now whats the root cause of all these troubles in his life. Is it his Love for that Girl? or is it his expectations from that Girl thats causing him all this trouble?

Yes, love can never Hurt if its pure, and Love with expectations is impure and thats the cause. Expectations from our loved ones, our co-workers, our friends, our Jobs, God even from ourselves..causes us the pain when we do not get what we expect. I normally donot expect anything from anyone I believe all that is happening is happening for Good, the times when I have expected something I got hurt. Latest was when I was expecting a phone call from my very close friend on my Birthday, but she couldn't call me and I felt really bad and hurt. Does that mean that she does not care about me No its not the case. I sit back and think only if we stop expecting results, favours, love, care, anger we will have no worries and we will live a happy life.

Think about this whenever we make a mistake we expect a backlash, embaresment and anger, so we try to hide our mistakes, only if we stop thinking about these things and except our mistakes assertively we can learn from them and stop making them again. We donot try new things our takes risks because we expect Danger, Defeat, Embaresment....

....stop thinking about the results and stop expecting love, respect etc. Just spread smile happiness, love and Respect without expecting anythng in return, as I think being selflesss is the only key to a peaceful and happy life.

Cheers!!

Sushant

Think more!!!

Some people might think that Im just another lazy man who does not want to do any think but speak nonsense.I donot blame them for thinking like that coz they think what they r doing is the rt thing .Thats watthey hav grown up seeing around them.what if all of us think like a new born baby???Explore this world with a new fresh mind without any previous preceptions . Just think bout it . When u were a samll child did u know what money is ?? What jobs r??? What Enggineering is????

U explored each and every thing with ur own thinking , but this time u will not belive what ur parents will tell u . What society willteach u . Its going to be all u . So u all must be wondering what should we do ? Why is Sushant writtinall this ? I will let u know coz we r not born to do a job , grow old and die . We all r here for a reson. I will discuss that in coming days so not u people worry bout it. Do think for at least 5 min dailybout what u want to do? Why r u in this world ? and do not ignore that small voice which might come.Daily sit for atleast 5 min all alone in solitude and think . I will again rt tommorow till then keepthinking.

Think of your life!!

We Live in a world which is very different from what we have been told whole of our lifes.Before going any further I want u to ask urself few questions .Why U hav to do a job to earn living ????Why cannot we just do what we like to do and live life ourway . To many of u I may sound Illogical many of u may say that I hav gone out of my mind butU r thinking that way coz U have been living someone elses life .

Ok when we r small childern we know nothing bout the world or why r we here ?We learn fromwhat our parents taught us or whatever we were taught by the school and society we lived in, So we all look at this world differently . An Engineer has a different pointof view towardslife , Doctor looks it differently , and different for arts student . This thing freaks meout why really do we have this beautiful gift called life ????
Guyz if u r really confused why I hav written this is coz I want u all to come up with somelogical answers to my stupid questions. Please take it seriously and do not make fun of itwaiting for ur response .

True Love!!!

Thanx Akshat for giving me a brief idea bout what love is, I thought a lotabout it and i came to this conclusion . I want share the same with all of my friends .Friends love is truth rest everything is fasle. I used to think that love was just a feelingand nothing more than that but I was wrong . Think bout this friends its not love which hurts there are many more feelings that are assosiated which are reason for our pain .One of them is expectations that r assosiated with the person that we love , rememberfriends love is uncoditional there should be no expectations and no selfish needs , u donot love ur parents if u expect some favours from them , u donot love ur friends if uhave some selfish needs , same is the case for ur spouse . We as human beings are veryselfish we always keep thinking bout our own growth , lets be honest to ourself donot weall USE people around us to grow .

So friends love is pure , love is sacared , its not wrong to say that love is GOD , so friends if next time u blame love , think again is it love thatneeds to be blamed or is it some other feeling like expectation or selfishness which is causing u this pain , I thought about it and I had experienced a lot of pain coz of myselfish behaviour and I thought it was love which caused that pain . Hope u all agree to wat I think and be careful with the usage of the word 'LOVE' , if u differ from my point of view then please write in I will appreciate it

Cheers!!!